Persistence: Definition, Benefits, & Examples
Persistence: Definition, Benefits, & Examples
Persistence is continued effort, usually in the face of obstacles, to achieve a goal. Persistence pays off in many ways, as psychological research shows.
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Sometimes I am blown away by the sheer persistence of humankind. For example, consider this quote from my favorite sex advice columnist, Dan Savage: “Every relationship fails until one doesn’t.” Savage is referring to romantic relationships, specifically, and he makes this point to emphasize that endings of relationships are the norm, and relationships that are truly forever are actually the rare exception. |
Yet in the face of that fact, we humans just keep pairing up and giving it another try. We learn along the way, make adjustments as we go, and though we may despair at times, few of us ever give up entirely on the mission of finding love. To me, that’s a beautiful example of persistence. Where does this level of dedication to our goals come from? Psychological research can tell us a lot about how persistence works and why we benefit so much from it.
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What Is Persistence? (A Definition)
To meet many objectives, we need both continuous and episodic persistence (Brandstatter & Bernecker, 2022). As a couple therapist, the building of a meaningful relationship naturally comes to my mind as an example. Relationships require us to have continuous persistence in that we cannot simply walk away when difficult topics are raised or conflict arises – we have to push through and stay connected to emerge stronger on the other side of the issue. At the same time, we cannot be with our partners all the time, so we must demonstrate episodic persistence to continue returning to our goal of building connection with that person. We could perhaps think of continuous persistence in isolation as the intensity with which a person pursues a one-night stand and episodic persistence in isolation as the act of returning to a therapy couch week after week.
Are Some People More Persistent Than Others?
All that said, it can also be said that some people are more persistent than others – they have the characteristic of tending to be persistent more often. Two researchers developed a scale to measure the tendency to be persistent, and they found three aspects of being a persistent person: being persistent despite difficulties, being persistent despite fear, and being inappropriately persistent – as in, continuing to work toward goals that are impractical, unhealthy, or highly unlikely to be achieved (Howard & Crayne, 2019). It seems that the first two aspects of persistence are associated with better psychological well-being, while the third is (perhaps unsurprisingly) not.
Can You Be Too Persistent?
I think these are useful distinctions. I used to race marathons, and I could distinguish between the need to push through the pain and the fear that I would not be able to succeed. I knew pain was inevitable in a long race, but if I had trained adequately, I did not have to be as afraid. When I started trying ultramarathons, I began to hear stories about people who had pushed themselves too far—their persistence had led them to get injured when they took their bodies past their limits.
Opposite of Persistence
Believe it or not, psychologists have a term for the opposite of persistence: they call it goal disengagement (Brandstatter & Bernecker, 2022). They conceptualize goal disengagement as the state of having released commitment to one’s previous goal on several levels. A person has not achieved goal disengagement until they have stopped being emotionally, mentally, and behaviorally invested in the goal.
For example, I would argue that a person has not really moved on from their previous relationship until they only invest as much thought, care, and energy into that person as they would invest into a friendship they have. Many, if not most, of us do not reach this stage until we have begun pursuing a new relationship with a new person.
Why Is Persistence Important?
In this way, persistence in learning things allows us to develop the key competencies we need as independent adults. In fact, without persistence, we would surely not get very far in life, which is why most species seem to have evolved an innate ability to persist at certain difficult developmental tasks (Lucca & Sommerville, 2018). It takes an endless series of trial and error efforts to learn how to walk, speak, tie one’s shoes, and so on.
Finally, persistence is important because it makes us feel good to work hard toward and achieve goals (Disaboto et al., 2019). Some psychologists even go so far as to claim that it is this sense of satisfaction that serves as the primary drive to persist (Mees & Schmitt, 2008).
Examples of Persistence
Really, I see examples of persistence all around me. It is in the couples whom I counsel through their relationship stressors, my friends who show up early each morning at the climbing gym, and my housemates as we gather for house meetings each Monday night to discuss the needs of our community. Big, meaningful goals underlie these persistent behaviors – goals of personal growth, intimacy, and harmony.
Does Persistence Pay Off?
There is also a lot of data showing that persistence pays off in terms of academic and professional achievements. For example, in a study conducted in Sweden, how persistently people worked at tasks when they were 13 years old predicted their grades at age 16, how educated they were as adults, and how well-paying and highly regarded their jobs were as adults (Andersson & Bergman, 2011). This led the authors of the study to conclude that the overall intelligence of these individuals, while influential in their success, was also dependent on how persistent they were as individuals.
Even seeing somebody else who embodies persistence can help us be more persistent. In one study, after people were asked to engage in a task that required lots of self-control, they were able to persist longer when they were exposed to an image of a person they considered to be very persistent (Martijn et al., 2007).
Persistence also means being willing to risk additional effort and loss of time and energy to reach goals (Lucas et al., 2015). In this sense, people who are more persistent may suffer a loss of resources as they refuse to give up on a task; this makes them more likely to achieve what other people do not, but also more likely to face the consequences of failing where a less persistent person would have given up sooner.
The Psychology of Persistence
Another theory, goal setting theory, tells us that we demonstrate persistence around specific and challenging (but not too challenging) goals (Locke & Latham, 1990). From this perspective, it is the nature of the goal itself that motivates us to be persistent. A third theory states that we will persist towards a goal until the costs associated with that pursuit start to outweigh the importance or desirability of the goal (Brehm & Self, 1989). Finally, still other psychologists have looked at individual differences in persistence rather than contextual factors. Perhaps the most famous contemporary example of this is the psychological concept of grit, in which Angela Duckworth characterized persistence as a key aspect of being a generally gritty, “stick-to-it” kind of person (Duckworth et al., 2007).
Persistence vs Consistency
You can think of persistence as the act of being consistent in pursuing a goal. As we noted above, this does not necessarily mean working nonstop to achieve the goal, but it does mean putting consistent effort in over time.
Persistence vs Perseverance
Perseverance and persistence are often used by psychologists to describe the same behavioral patterns (Gucciardi et al., 2016). In this regard, you can use the words somewhat interchangeably. (At the same time, it may be helpful to know that the very similar word “perseverate” carries a less positive meaning in the world of psychology.)
Persistence vs Resilience
Quotes on Persistence
- “You don’t start out writing good stuff. You start out writing crap and thinking it’s good stuff, and then gradually you get better at it. That’s why I say one of the most valuable traits is persistence.” – Octavia Butler
- “If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
- “I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.” – Thomas Jefferson
- “Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent.” – Calvin Coolidge
- “The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” – Albert Ellis
- “Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill
- “Ambition is the path to success. Persistence is the vehicle you arrive in.” – Bill Bradley
- “The best way out is always through.” – Robert Frost
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Final Thoughts on Persistence
That said, I hope you now understand a little more about where persistence might come from in your life. If you would like to know some more about how to remain persistent when you are struggling to stay motivated, I recommend watching this video:
Video: What to Do When You Want to Give Up
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